To say that you pray for whoever is supposedly daily molesting your first-born can only be out of a badly written script (once again) of a really bad, sick movie.
Forgiveness is a grand human capacity. And it’s GRAND because VERY FEW are able to have it.
And up to now, you’ve demonstrated to be very, very FAR from being such a soul.
And also, you see, only AFTER the victim’s suffering is over can there be forgiveness. Even if, just for logic’s sake, due to the fact that the “amount” of forgiveness has yet to be settled.
To forgive misdeeds beforehand is to be arrogant beyond written word.
To forgive violence that is yet to be applied upon one’s daughter is completely, utterly and inhumanly insane.
To forgive violence that HAS BEEN applied to one’s daughter is not arrogant, nor insane. It’s scripted.
In very bad taste, I must say.
ONLY a mother who knows that her daughter is not suffering can be so vain with the use of forgiveness.
May your action today make all Mother’s of Britain cling on their children and look up at the sky and honestly and dearly think and say “Thank God I’m not like Kate McCann”.
Kate, you do realize that everything you say WILL be, one day, used against you; don’t you?
Aqui,nesta foto, o que me dói é ver a foto de uma pobre cadela ou cão em estado miserável.
ReplyDeleteQuanto à corredora de distâncias longas....que se lixe,como diz o mal educado do MST.
Faz lembrar aqueles que mal tratam as vítimas,até à morte!
Sorry but I can explain in english!
A nice day.
Maria
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IcmXQU5BY4c
ReplyDeleteGood morning Tex..my word for today .
A few mums that the spineless gutless press have not even bothered to mention.
Claire Blair battled against all odds when told she had breast cancer with weeks to live. Four years later she is still with us,doctors are stunned. 'I am figthting to stay alive for my children' is her only explanation.
Jade Goody, another victim of cancer,whos little ones will take flowers to her grave and remember their mum who adored them so.
Denise, Jamie Bulgers mum who has been 'wound up' by the gutless spineless British press as she also remembers today and will leave flowers at her sons grave.
Not one of these women it seems are worth remebering and yet we have a woman proud of herself and her fame for child neglect and possibly the death of her daughter, talking on BBC radio explaining she understands loss.
Kate Mccann you need help and the sooner you get it the better.
http://www.trilulilu.ro/praiadaluz/4ee81e59a4b6ee
ReplyDeleteThank you Textusa, this is quite after my heart.
ReplyDeleteMaud
Transcript of Aled Jones interview with Kate McCann.
ReplyDeleteAled - Does Mothering Sunday, itself bring mixed emotions?
Kate - It does and it doesn’t. I mean, every day to be honest is quite difficult. I guess Mothers Day is another reminder really that Madeleine is not here. I think motherhood is a real gift and obviously I’ve got three children, and it’s a reminder that one of my babies isn’t with me but you know I’m still Madeleine’s mum, and I always will be.
Aled . How do you cope with a day like Mothering Sunday?
Kate - I guess it’s a little bit different now I think because we are working so hard perhaps days where we would have maybe done something really special we don’t necessarily, certainly Mothers Day, I think birthdays are different, children’ s birthdays and things but I think we just get through it like any other day really.
Aled - Do you get lots of support from family?
K. Oh we’ve had amazing support I mean our family has been great and that’s an important point really because everyone in our family has suffered and is going through a lot of pain and anxiety and we are all missing Madeeine, but we’ve all got to try and support each other
Aled - And what about your other children how aware are they of what is happening?
Kate - Very aware they talk about Madeleine every day they know she is missing they know she has been taken by somebody. They understand it a little bit like burglary, in that even if you really want something it doesn’t mean that we can take it because Madeleine belongs to us you know and it’s not right that they’ve got Madeleine and we need to find her but they talk about finding her, about you know finding Madeleine, and running away with her and coming back home. And even things like when we go on holiday they say ‘oh what will happen if the police find Madeleine and we are not there?’ And we say ‘oh don’t worry our next door neighbours will let us know.’ And they are very aware but they are very positive, they will always talk about, ‘ when Madeleine comes home’ Sean said to me the other week, well Amelie said to me “ Why do you work mummy?” and I said well “I’ve got to find Madeleine” and Sean said “ Yes mummy but when that’s OVER, when Madeleine is home what will you do?” (Kate sighs) and you think bring it on.
cont
ReplyDeleteAled - Does that help?
Kate - It does. They always say out of the mouths of babes. You know they are really positive and it really does keep us going. I think in years to come I’ll be able to tell Sean and Amelie just how important they have been in our life keeping us going and getting us through it all.
Aled what effect has time had on you, has time healed at all?
Kate - It’s always funny that line isn’t it ‘time is a healer’ I think the wounds are less raw, the pain doesn’t go away, and the anxiety is always there. I’ m definitely a lot stronger than I was a year ago which is positive. It’s funny as sometimes you beat yourself up about it because I think how come I am doing okay and I’m coping better than I was that’s not right, because nothing has changed for Madeleine but yeh it’s important that I am because I’ve got three children, one to look for and two to look after, and it’s important that I can cope.
Aled - Do you feel guilty at being happy in a way then?
Kate - Yeh there is that element. I mean I know it’s okay to be happy and it’s important for Sean and Amelie that we do have happy times but there is a little bit of guilt really and a little bit discomfort in being able to adapt I guess.
A. How important a word is ‘hope’ for you?
Kate. - Oh very important we’ve obviously got hope, we’ve got a lot of hope really a lot of hope, hope that Madeleine is still alive. Obviously the difficult task is trying to find her but whilst there is hope we’ll keep going and certainly we’ll never give up..
Aled... So what is Madeleine like?
Kate - Erm someone you just want everyone to meet her cos, erm she’s just an amazing little character full of personality loads of energy, quite knowing, erm , really funny and loving and you know her relationship with Sean and Amelie, it’s incredible really and that ‘s something which still gets to me at times. When I see them playing and they start talking about Madeleine, again, you know,when we were away Sean was digging in the sandpit and I said “What are you doing?” he said “ I’m digging up buried treasure mummy and I’m going to give it to Madeleine.” And you just kind of think really, what would it be like for the three of them to be together?
Aled - What are some your most treasured memories?
Kate. - Oh my god there’s lots. I used to take Madeleine swimming on a Saturday morning and she used to have this really tight swimming cap on and I’d be watching through the glass and she was the youngest there, she was only three and she would just walk along on her own really confident and get in and these huge eyes would be looking at me through the glass and shed just be waving you know, hi mummy and I’d be texting Gerry saying she has got me crying again, and just lying with her you know and conversations, it had got to the stage where me and Madeleine would go to lunch together you know and it felt like a real girls day out.
Aled - I know you are a person of faith which I would like to talk about after we have had some music I don’t know if you listen to music at all?
Kate - No, we do, we listen to a lot of music it’s been a little bit strange to be honest because since Madeleine was taken from us I actually struggled quite a lot to listen to music and I actually put classical music on rather than anything remotely, I guess, happy, with lyrics or stuff dance type music anything like that but gradually I am able to listen to it again now.
Aled - And what would you like to listen to today?
Kate - Chasing Cars by Snow Patrol.
cont
ReplyDeleteAled - Why Snow Patrol?
Kate - This is a song that both, myself and Gerry really liked and in fact after Madeleine had gone it was a song that was quite difficult to listen to, actually it kind of it made us both quite upset because it reminded us of happy times of Madeleine but at the same time it reminded us of Madeleine. So, from that point of view it is quite a special song and I think the lyrics if I just lay here will you lie with me and Madeleine would often used to say at bedtime lie with me mummy lie with me daddy and they were really special vivid moments.
MUSIC
Aled Is every day bad?
Kate – No, not every day is bad but it is strange I can have three or four days where the days just go, basically I am working I am looking after Sean and Amelie, I get through a day get up same for the next day, and then something can suddenly out of the blue just really upset me and it can be something quite innocuous it can just trigger something, makes you aware that you don’t have to scratch too far below the surface for that emotion to come bubbling out. You get through it, I mean luckily two of us together are quite a ‘unit’ really, usually one of us can pull the other one up when needs be.
Aled - What does it feel like having worlds glare on you?
Kate - I think you take it for granted really what being anonymous was like it’s been very hard I mean I’m not the most confident person on the planet and I’d never be a someone who would get up and give a presentation at work or anything I’d try avoid it like the plague but we’ve obviously been forced into this situation.
Aled - You’ve changed a lot as well haven’t you because in the beginning you were very much in the background whereas now you are not?
Kate - Absolutely, I think I was just, obviously I was going through a lot of pain and distress but also I was just really uncomfortable being in the spotlight and then I had to kind of say to myself’ well why are we doing it, we’re doing it to try and find Madeleine and it’s not about me and it doesn’t matter how uncomfortable I feel you know it’s Madeleine we are trying to help. Forget about me move on get over it.’
Are there times when you don’t feel strong?
Kate - Oh Yeh yeh, there are have been a lot of things in the last almost three years, erm not even just Madeleine being taken from us, which was obviously the worst, but there has been many things that have happened subsequently and they can also be really low times dark times when you do doubt your faith I have to be honest, but at the same time it’s strange, because we’ve been through that, I do believe there is a greater good and in some ways it kind of strengthens my faith really.
cont
ReplyDeleteAled - Because in a way because what you are experiencing for many people would be hell on earth?
Kate - No, it is. I think it the worst thing that could happen to a parent certainly one of the worst things I mean the pain is just, just incredible and it’s the pain of worry for her really I mean we live with the sadness of not having Madeleine in our lives but you know I’m her mum and I can’t help but worry about her and I just want to be with her, if she has a sore tummy I want to be there, when she is upset I want to be there. I just want to bring her back into the warmth and love of our family.
Aled Are there ever times when you blame god?
Kate - I’ve never blamed god for what happened, at all. I don’t think that was anything to do with god. There are times when I’ve got angry with god and certainly the, the additional things that I have mentioned that have happened where I just think why can we have extra suffering put on us at such an awful time and I just haven’t understood it and I wondered why god hasn’t interceded and tried to counter that. These are the times when I go off to the church to be honest, I mean I’ve got a key to the church they’ve kindly given me one sometimes I go in and oh it’s a bit of a sanctuary a bit of a refuge I’ll go and I can speak out – because obviously there’s no one there – just get it all off my chest really. I mean I do wonder you know why should god help my prayers when there are millions of people with prayers which are equally as important around the world, I don’t know I mean I just hope he does but, my faith has really sustained me I think a lot through all of this and it is a definite comfort there.
Aled - Has your faith changed at all?
Kate - I think it has probably got stronger definitely I think before all this happened that I’d never really had to question my faith you know it was there I believed in god I’d had little conversations with god in my head but I never really had to challenge it I was just comfortable with my relationship with my faith and with god but it’s definitely got stronger now it’s probably more intense. Em the day I was made arguido was quite an interesting day with regards to my faith I’d had a period of about 4 to 6 weeks prior to that where there had obviously been a shift in the investigation and suddenly none of the police were talking to us, we couldn’t have a meeting people didn’t want to have phone conversations with us, I mean we were left in this awful void of information really, so we were trying to cope with the pain of not having Madeleine but also not having any information and not knowing at all what was going on and then that led on to the period when suddenly there were these awful stories coming out in the media about supposed blood in the apartment, basically pointing the finger at us then obviously that subsequently finished with us being arguido and the day I was going in for my arguido interview was quite a strange day because I had been really low and feeling quite weak and fragile and then suddenly I just felt really strong, I mean I was angry, I was angry that people hadn’t been looking for Madeleine but also I just thought to myself ‘ I know the truth and god knows the truth and nothing else matters’ and I just felt really strong from then I felt a real inner strength.
Aled Do you think god is looking after Madeleine?
Kate - I do, I mean to me Madeleine was a gift, most our life is pretty public anyway, but you know obviously we had quite a difficult time trying to have Madeleine and when she was born I really did believe she was a gift and I never took her for granted you know every day when I’d wake up and I’d see these huge eyes looking at me and I’d say thank god for Madeleine. I don’t believe he would stop loving her now or abandon her and I don’t believe that at all, and I do get a comfort in thinking
Aled - Do you think god is looking after Madeleine?
ReplyDeleteKate - I do, I mean to me Madeleine was a gift, most our life is pretty public anyway, but you know obviously we had quite a difficult time trying to have Madeleine and when she was born I really did believe she was a gift and I never took her for granted you know every day when I’d wake up and I’d see these huge eyes looking at me and I’d say thank god for Madeleine. I don’t believe he would stop loving her now or abandon her and I don’t believe that at all, and I do get a comfort in thinking that that wherever she is whoever she is with that he is with her and protecting her, protecting her spirit and she’s got a lot of spirit. (Kate laughs)
Aled - Do you find that your prayers have changed over the years?
Kate - I guess a little bit more directed now. The prayer that I used to say all the time was to, to keep the family, thank god for my family to keep Gerry Madeleine Sean and Amelie safe healthy and happy I always said that, which when it happened, to be honest was a little bit of a struggle as that was the one prayer that I said all of the time. I pray for lots of things now really, obviously I always pray for the family obviously most of the prayers are centred on Madeleine really but I pray for the people who’ve taken Madeleine the people who know what has happened to Madeleine, and the people around/ related to the person who has taken Madeleine. And I pray for the police and the investigators, people who are looking for her and I pray for all the other children who are missing or have been exploited in some way, because in some ways, funny to say lucky, but we have been lucky we’ve had a lot of support from the general public in particular people we don’t know we’ve had incredible support and there are many families out there whose children have gone missing and you don’t hear about it.
Aled - Gerry said his faith has been strengthened by the goodness generated by this ordeal so there are positives that have come out of it?
Kate - Ah very much so. We still get a bundle of mail every day from people, you know willing us on sending their best wishes. Children send pictures for Madeleine and stuff, and you know we have books of prayers sent for Madleine that children have written. It’s been amazing. It’s been a real eye opener, you know I’d have never thought of sitting down and writing a letter to someone I didn’t know who’d suffered tragic event and yet the strength it has given us is amazing.
Aled - It would be understandable for you to be filled with hate and anger and rage and yet you’re not at all?
Kate - I’ve had my moments if I went back to 2008 I think I did probably have a lot of anger on board and it’s such a horrible negative emotion . I’m pleased to say that, that anger has gone now and I feel so much better than I did in 2008.
Aled - Do you think you’d ever be able to forgive the people who took Madeleine?
Kate - That’s a difficult one isn’t it? I guess I don’t know why they’ve taken her and I think until I know that it would be hard, hard to say. I’d like to hope that I could but it’s difficult.
Aled - On Mothering Sunday do you have a message for other mothers who may be experiencing similar emotions to what you are going through?
Kate - Yeh I think erm – long pause- , dig deep really, just keep hoping and be around your family and friends, really gather their love, surround yourself with positive people but dont’give up.
Aled - Thank you for talking to me.
Update: Saturday 13th March 2010
ReplyDeleteToday we joined hundreds of runners to take part in a 10km run in Hyde Park to support the work of the charity 'Missing People' (http://www.missingpeople.org.uk/).
'Miles for Missing People' is the first of what will now be an annual event.
Many relatives who also have a family member missing (through a variety of different circumstances) came to support the event and raise awareness for all missing children and adults.
We want to thank Martin Houghton-Brown and the team at Missing People for organising today's run, and of course for all their commitment and hard work, despite limited resources and recognition.
We would also like to thank everyone who came to run and/or show their support today, as well as all those who have very generously sponsored me and the other runners.
Events like that today, help to remind the world that these children and adults are still missing. By supporting such a cause, we are all giving them a much needed chance of being found - and hopefully reunited with their family.
http://www.findmadeleine.com/updates.html
She is supposed to be a devout Catholic so why does she say Mothers Day and not Mothering Sunday as it really is? Yet another lie, exposed by her own mother soon after Madeleine vanished.
ReplyDeleteThe God I believe in knows her for the liar she is.
Oh, the poor dog, it looks do sick, and to be "given" Kate's sorry harse face( in good portuguese we would say "fuças") is adding insult to injury or vice-versa!
ReplyDeletePraying for the sick beast that is abusing and torturing her own precious flesh and blood! That turns my stomach! What happened to the rage of "want to kill him"(Murat), in her diary???
Rosie